He said no, he said he only came to see me. And of course i wasnt taking it seriously i thought he was making fun of me but at the moment he gave me a look he had never given me before so i kinda couldnt speak and just stood there stupid and by the time i arranged what had just happened we were too close to everyone to hear so nothing happened after that. The whole ride home i couldn't stop thinking about it. About why he said that he just wanted to see me. He had seen me all trip.
I didn't understand. I wanted to shake it off of my head and i was able to forget for the next few weeks. But after that i kept seeing him and the he looked at me just wasn't the same anymore. Or maybe it was me feeling those things that made me think differently but i cant breathe when he looks at me that way and i always panic and look away.
To make things worse, two weeks later we found out he had been having an affair with his girlfriends friend for seven months. And i forgot to mention they were already engaged in that seven month period. The girlfriend of course didn't cancel the wedding and he was forgiven. You would've thought if the idea of him being my brother in law would've grossed me out, this would've just ended it all for me! But nope. Here i am still with these terrible feelings. We've never touched more than a quick hello hug and kiss on the cheek and i crave his warmth so much.
He never said anything else but that comment at universal studios again to me and i still miss talking to him. Were never alone anywhere and i always make up possiblities to try and make it possible but it never happens or i chicken out.
I wish i didn't felt this way because i know that i could never forgive something like what he did. Work to improve your relationship with your husband and try to reawaken your sex life together. Focus on your children, on establishing routine, exercising, calming your mind and keeping your family safe.
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Each week, Pamela chooses one problem to answer, which will be published online and in print. Or is it just when you are alone? If you don't act the same way in front of your sister then you both know it is wrong and unacceptable.
X Sent from my iPhone using Netmums. Family and other relationships Does my ex daughters father need to know my address? Family and other relationships My brother and sister in-law are jealous of my pregnancy. Family and other relationships Crush on a coworker caused me to leave my job. Though that kind of makes me think is he hiding it because he knows it's wrong and has intentions behind it flirting or is he not acting that way just so he doesn't have her down his neck about it?
Can't find your answer? Sorry but you should stop thinking of this. Stay away from him. It seems you like him. Im not trying to be offensive but it isn't just about you being a sister to him, but it's about being a sister to your actual sister. It isn't about feeling like crap because nothing could ever happen between you two, it's about feeling like crap for your sister that she's married to somebody who is flirting with somebody else - and not even just any random, his wife's sister.
That's very disrespectful both to you and her. When you say nothing could ever happen no matter what the circumstance, a break up or something: these thoughts wouldn't even come into my head of my sisters husband.
You seriously need to keep distance, leave him to it and honestly do not respond to his flirting. It doesn't mean anything. And out of respect to your family just tell him to quit it. Family and other relationships Gifts for brother and sister in law. Family and other relationships Sister in Law is jealous of my relationship with her brother.
I tried severing any ties or chance of seeing- hearing about him but their family is close and it isn't really possible with out it seeming suspicious. My six year old son is extremely close to him and talks about him constantly. I can't get away from it.
I go to bed thinking about him and wake up thinking about him. My marriage is a good one. We got married too young and are very different people.
Regardless, my husband and I love each other very much and are best friends.
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